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Better Blogging | Who is Your Ideal Reader? | Chaos & Kiddos

As we continue the better blogging series, it’s time to ask ourselves to define our “ideal reader.” The truth is, your readers are fickle. When they come to your blog, they are offering you their most valuable asset – their time. Do they give freely? No. Your readers certainly don’t read your blog for your benefit. They read it for theirs. They expect you to deliver quality content every time and plan to walk away from your blog with something new in their possession. Whether it’s knowledge, a good joke or a giveaway prize, they come to your blog with a “What’s in it for me?” mindset.

Better Blogging | Who is Your Ideal Reader? | Chaos & Kiddos

In order to move forward as you define your “ideal reader” and develop strategies for better blogging, you must embrace a moment of raw honesty and acceptance. You will not attract every reader to your blog. Attempts to cast a wider net by blogging about everything and anything dirties the already murky water of readership. It confuses your readers when your blog does not have a clear direction and purpose because they struggle to connect with why they should return regularly. They’re not confident that your future content will be of interest to them because your profile lacks definition and consistency and they don’t really understand what your blog is really about (Side Note – Google feels the same way!). So they won’t bother to proactively come back, which means that you’ve lost them.

How do you avoid this and develop a loyal readership that comes back to your blog time and time again? The first step is to ask yourself a question that will require a great bit of thought. Who is your ideal reader?  Who are you writing for? Who do you feel you are speaking to when you blog? This goes beyond basic analytic statistics and really digs into the personality behind the method. For me, I know in my heart that I’m speaking to the busy, passionate, working mom, many of whom are small business owners, have multiples or young children close in age, and are just barely treading water. My readers need affirmation that they’re not alone in the chaos of kiddo life and the encouragement to keep on, keepin’ on. Once I identified my ideal reader, I was able to work on my content, as well as my presentation.

With every post I write, I challenge myself to consider whether it will benefit my ideal reader in any way. Is this post consistent with the other information I share with my audience? Is it styled similarly to my other posts? Does the topic fit within the thematic strategy for my blog? Will my ideal reader be able to glean anything useful from this post? If I run into any road blocks here, it’s time to pause and consider whether I’m on the right track or if I need to table the idea.

Better Blogging | Who is Your Ideal Reader? | Chaos & Kiddos

When a post does pass the “ideal reader test,” it becomes time to work on my delivery. The key to keeping a reader is the proper presentation of useful information. Let’s face it…talent without tools is wasted effort. I might have mountains of useful knowledge to impart, but if I can’t pull it together in a user-friendly format, I’m wasting my time and the time of my readers. I talked about this more in Better Blogging: Blog Post Must-Haves, but the short version is this – Every successful blogger must be a talented writer, have a killer work ethic, and be committed to sharing creative ideas and life experiences that are relatable. This means staying true to your ideal readers’ interests, and avoiding the temptation of ego, sponsored posts that don’t fit your market or blogging anxiety that results in mediocre “phoned in” posts.

I’d love to hear from you on this one – Please share below – Who is your ideal reader? 

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  1. Elizabeth

    August 21, 2014 at 2:33 pm

    Hmm. You know, this is a great question. I have started typing out who my ideal reader is three times and had to backspace. LOL I guess I better put a little more thought into it! Thanks, Katy! Sharing.

    • Katy Blevins

      September 1, 2014 at 8:09 am

      Yeah, this is a super tough one, isn’t it?! I had a “woah” moment when a consultant asked me to look at my home page and describe who my readers thought I was by what was posted there. It made me totally rethink my ideal reader and how I present myself! More to come with this series….I’m working on something extra big and it’s going to take me some time. But it will be well worth the wait!!

  2. Rachel

    August 21, 2014 at 7:18 pm

    Great question! I guess I have two ideal readers: Those who know what it is to go through difficult life circumstances and challenges and those who struggle to know what to say to such people. Obviously there is an overlap. My own experience is particularly with infertility and MS but so far I’ve been finding that readers are considering my posts relevant for considering other illnesses or life challenges. It’s great getting feedback learning as I write.

    • Katy Blevins

      September 1, 2014 at 8:08 am

      Rachel, what a great audience you have and an important, useful message to share. I love that your reach grows beyond your own personal experiences and can be translated to other illnesses and life challenges. That’s so helpful and gives you a much larger impact to a greater group of people that need that type of insight.

  3. Brittany

    October 25, 2014 at 6:23 pm


    It’s been a while since I’ve visited your blog. I’m not sure I even have you on my feedly list, how is that? Weird.

    Anyway, what a great post/series. This is definitely something I need to get more clear about. I can tell you’ve really focused things and I’m sure it will pay off!

    I miss you. 🙁


    • Katy Blevins

      November 12, 2014 at 2:25 pm

      XOXO, love. I’ve been on the dark side a bit. But I promise, I’m coming out of the fog and will be back in action, even better than ever!!

  4. Kristen

    May 11, 2015 at 9:05 am

    I love this post and that’s a great question….something I haven’t been able to identify yet!

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How to Add Custom Facebook Tabs to your Business Page



Custom Facebook tabs are a great way to spiff up your business page with touches all your own. In a visual flow format that’s mostly controlled by the social media platform itself, making the most of these tiny advantages and calls-to-action can be pivotal to expanding your reach. Take steps to prompt your audience to actively engage and direct visitors on your business page to your areas of greatest interest (i.e. subscribing or following you on social media). Custom Facebook tabs give you the opportunity to plant a tiny seed of interest by highlighting applications that otherwise tend to be ignored.

Implementing custom Facebook tabs starts with activating the appropriate applications on your business page. Connect your TwitterPinterest and Instagram feeds directly to your business page (Did you know you can set up your Instagram to post directly to your Facebook business page?). Explore your email subscriber tool for Facebook integration. If you’re using LeadPages via WordPress, activate the auto-Facebook tab (amazing!).

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Your next step is to order your Facebook tabs so that your top 3 (the ones you plan to create custom Facebook tabs for) are at the top of the list. You can do so easily by navigating to your business page, clicking “More” on your top tab bar, and then selecting “Manage Tabs.” From there you can drag up or down to order your list and even delete tabs that serve no use for your page.

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Now we are ready to create your custom Facebook tabs. This feature is kind of hidden…which is why most people don’t customize their tabs! The phrase we hear most often when introducing this to our clients is “Wow! I never even knew that existed!” Click on your page Settings and then navigate to Apps, which should show a complete list of the programs you just integrated with your page. Click “Edit Settings” on one of your apps and there it is! You can accomplish two special customizations here. You can change the tab name (i.e. from LeadPages to Free Motivational Planner) and upload a custom tab image. Yay!

The appropriate size for custom Facebook tab images is 111 pixels wide by 74 pixels high.


Customize your Tab Name AND your Tab

And there you go. You now have custom Facebook tabs that can drive traffic to subscriber portals, other social media profiles and more. Make sure your custom Facebook tabs are in line with your brand style and message. Maybe try a few different styles to see if any convert more than others. Take the opportunity to make the page your own and entice your audience to take the next step by clicking through.

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How to Make Custom Pinterest Board Covers and Upload Pins



There are so many little ways you can personalize your online profiles and increase engagement with your market simply by improving your visual presentation. This week, we’re introducing a few ways to sharpen your Pinterest profile. The most visual of all the social media platforms out there, and second only to Google for searching for just about anything…Pinterest is an application that no small business owner can ignore. The case for Pinterest and how to maximize market engagement could be a whole blog in and of itself. We’ll have more tips and tricks to share later, but for now, let’s start small. Today, let’s talk about how to make custom Pinterest board covers and how to manually upload and edits pins (without hitting the “Pin It” button).

Custom Pinterest board covers create a strong visual consistency in your profile that can help visitors understand your brand, intent and authority in your area of the business (or blogging) world. To create them, you’ll need to understand how to manually upload and edit pins, so we’ll start there.

Log into your Pinterest account and open one of your boards. See that nice little “Add a Pin” button? Click it!


Once you click that button, you’ll have two options. Add from Web or from your Device. When you click from Web, it’s going to remind you that you should just use a “pin it” button (and they’re right). For this lesson, let’s click from your Device. It will prompt you to upload a photo and you’ll browse your device (in this case, my computer hard drive) and choose the image to upload. It will automatically trigger the pin box and you’ll be able to choose your board and add a pin description. Voila!

What does your head shot say about you-

You’re probably going…something is missing! Where does the newly created pin take you? And you’re right. We’ve got one more step. Once the pin has been created and uploaded. Click to edit the pin and then add the URL that you want your audience to click through to in the Source box. Now…ta da!!! Voila!! You’re done!


The process for adding custom Pinterest board covers is 90% what you just learned and 10% PicMonkey fun. Click “Custom” to get started.

The magic dimension size for custom Pinterest board cover is 217 pixels x 147 pixels. 

Once you have your board covers created, you’ll upload each of them via the process above. You don’t have to add a source URL to click through if you’re just going for Pinterest pretty, BUT…our recommendation is to take the opportunity to link through to your website wherever you can! So, if you have a landing page on your website that relates to the items on your board, link your custom board cover through to that page! You never know who might click! To assign the new custom boards as the cover images in your profile, click “Edit” and then “Change Cover” and you’ll be able to scroll through to the new cover image. Click “Save Changes” and you’re done!



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Are Your Product Photos Hurting Your Business?



Why are Quality Product Photos Important to my Business?

There are a lot of factors that impact your sales success (or failure). Just like the right strategy and mix of medias can propel sales forward, most marketing mistakes are closely intertwined and can often work against each other to create a rapidly downward spiral. Often, new business owners overlook the power of their product photos when considering market strategy.

Improve My Etsy Product Photos

Today’s world is visually driven by the real-time access that social media provides. The good news is that great images get a lot more love these days. The bad news is that it’s made us a bit complacent when it comes to quality. Not everyone is a pro, and seeing blurry or poorly exposed photos in our news feeds has become a regular occurrence. The result has been small business owners that underestimate the importance of consistent, high quality product photos. Many make do with poor images straight from their camera phones (you can get good images on your phone!) and few take advantage of the massive range of editing software available.

Overlooking the power of your shop’s visual draw is a huge mistake. In a visually motivated society, a certain level of complacency has desensitized our eyes and we often find ourselves aimlessly scrolling through images until something truly powerful catches our attention. The“Well, that’s good enough, it doesn’t have to be perfect.” response to mediocre images most likely means that your product photos are getting lost in a churning sea of visual garbage that your market blindly scrolls past instead of clicking through to purchase.

We live in a world of options. Gone are the local general stores as the only source of food and supplies. These days you can quite literally order something from any corner of the globe with a few clicks or swipes on a computer or phone. The availability of endless options is overwhelming for consumers. Most will gravitate towards the easy button, which typically factors in two key markers. 1. Ease of Website Navigation (More on that later!) and 2. Stellar Product Photos. You have one chance to grab their attention, and even less than that to keep it. All of the factors need to play to your success, not your demise. And that means your product photos should be impeccably styled, consistently clear and properly presented to your marketplace.

How Do You Improve Product Photos?

1. Simple Presentation: Make sure your images highlight your wares. Remove distractions and design a simple layout that makes your product the star! Use simple backdrops and keep product photos tight and clean, avoiding background furniture, people or other elements that do not directly correlate to your market or highlight your product. If your images show your product in use by clients, make sure your background is staged, clean and devoid of the busy of life (i.e. piles of bills, food out, laundry, fridge covered in magnets). You want your buyers looking at one thing. Your product. Don’t tempt them to look away. 

2. Consistent Styling: Your product photos should present as a body of work. This means that each product should be photographed similarly. If your product photos are laid out in an Etsy shop, and their design and presentation differ considerably, your buyer will spend more time (even subconsciously) contemplating the differences. The end result may be poor decision-making or confusion, because the styling has become a stumbling block instead of a showcase. Use the same set up for each product, edit them consistently and make sure the images compliment each other instead of competing with each other. The last thing you want to do with your business is to create an environment where you are competing against yourself! 

3. In-Focus: Blurry photos belong in one place. The trash. That may sound harsh, but you’ll be much happier when you throw away poor product photos and take the extra time to create stellar product photos. Out-of-focus images send a few messages to potential buyers. You don’t take your business seriously, you don’t know what you’re doing and you don’t care enough about me to present your product in a way that I can clearly see…just to name a few. None of those thoughts are encouraging click-throughs. Show value to your audience by taking care to make their visit to your shop as enjoyable as possible, which means they can look at your images with ease, clearly understanding your talent and services, and properly interpreting whether it meets their need.

4. Properly Exposed: Admittedly, there is a bit of a learning curve here, but this is important! If your product photos are overexposed (too bright) or underexposed (too dark), then your prospective buyer can’t see all of the details. They have to work harder to visualize your product in their hands. Like we mentioned before, don’t make them work hard to consider purchasing your services. Whether you invest in professional help or explore today’s popular editing software, make sure your final product photos are well-balanced and properly exposed. 

Improve My Etsy Product Photos

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